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How to be Less Generous And Less Bitter

September 21, 2021
Why do you keep giving so much just to not get anything back? I know why and I'll tell you the answer!
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How to Stop Being an Entitled Parent

September 15, 2021
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September 14, 2021
Do you want to say something to your kids to get through to them, but you do not know what to say? I've got 10 texts that you can send today!
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Six Clever Ways To Be Sure Your Kids Won’t Want to Tell You Anything, Ever

June 4, 2021
These are some common mistakes that a lot of parents make that in turn can make our kids not talk openly to us.
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PARENTS: Maybe your parenting style could use a downgrade?

March 15, 2021
A “helicopter parent” is one who pays extremely close attention to their kid’s experiences and problems. They hover overhead, overseeing every aspect of their child's life— constantly.
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A Parent's Guide to Teen Love

February 21, 2021
Four Subtle Ways to Support Our Teens as They Enter the Whirlwind of Romantic Love
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Build a better relationship with your teen

November 10, 2020
Staying connected with teens as they experience puberty and work towards becoming independent individuals can be extremely challenging.
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A House Divided: How to Debate Tough Issues and Stay Related

September 5, 2020
How we can cool off, calm down and use these stressful times to develop a new way of communicating with each other on politics or ANY area of life where we might see things differently than the next person.
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Let Us Resist Our Own Resistance. (This article is not for babies.)

August 23, 2020
If we don’t move past our human reactions when reality does not match our expectations, we do not get to the good part where we solve real problems.
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How Dare You Question Me?? I'm the Parent

August 19, 2020
You may have never said this out loud, but is there a part of you that is above reproach?
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One Hour Later: A New Future for a Dad and his Daughter

August 12, 2020
Powerful questions from a session that could alter your relationship with your teenager completely.
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The Myth of “That’s How It Is”

August 10, 2020
This may seem like a mellow, chill, innocuous belief, but there is something sneaky about it that subtly and effectively cements in the untrained mind: “I can’t do anything about fill-in-the-blank. Oh well.
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If you’re so great, then why doesn’t your teenager like you?

August 4, 2020
Ouch!!! Sorry about that!! ‍So, I’m not implying you’re not great, but, be honest, have you ever pondered that thought? 
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What If Someone Told You THIS When You Were 16?

July 23, 2020
Notes from a session with my 16 year old client...
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